to THINK!

They will always disapprove you when you listen to your inner voice, who were failed to listen their own once.

I have seen lot of people who end up with a negative tone while conversing. One of my relative was nudging me while sitting next to me in one family function. When I reacted apprehensively, relative’s reaction was “learn to tolerate the pain…” and I was like EXCUSES ME?? not getting you.

Once I had an opportunity to listen The Great सिंधुताई सपकाळ…she was so clear in her teachings. I’ve understood one thing from that speech, there is no big deal by being a TOLERANT person. but you should know where to stop. Sindhutai was tolerating all big and small circumstances in her life during her childhood, adulthood and even motherhood. But when her inner soul became intolerant to the odds in the society, including her own family, she listened to her inner voice.

few people are always waiting for YOUR TURN in life. their tone would be like this- तेरी बारी आएगी तब देखते है… directly / indirectly they are wishing the same thing which had happened with them… (inspite of being your closed one) only because they have lost their ability to THINK, they will JUDGE.

I request you to THINK!!!

मेहेरबानी होईल.

Quarantine म्हणजे अलग करणे.
एकत्रितपणे हे करू नका.
1. पिकनिकला जाणे.
2. फेरफटका मारणे.
3. टपरीवर सिगरेट फुकत बसणे.
4. बाईक/ कारमधून फिरणे.
5. मुलांना चौपाटीला नेणे.
6. सामाजिक/ धार्मिक/ सांस्क्रुतिक/ राजकीय कारणांसाठी एकत्र येणे.
7. आरोग्याची कारण देऊन मैदान/ बागेमध्ये व्यायाम / खेळणे.
8. घोळक्यात चकाट्या पिटणे.


14 दिवस स्वतःचा विचार तर कराच ; पण आजूबाजूची म्हातारी / लहान मुल आहेत, हे लक्षात असू दे.
मी so called strong आहे, मान्य आहे. पण सगळे नाहीत. Corona चा carrier म्हणजेच वाहक कोणीही असु शकतो.


Police, medicos, cleaners, Indian forces and many others are fighting against it.
आम्हाला तुमच्या आयुष्याची किंमत कळत असेल , तर तुम्हाला पण कळायला हरकत नही.

Railway station वर साफसफाई करणारी बाई तुमच्यासाठी जीव धोक्यात टाकते.
आणि आम्ही निर्लज्जासारखे पिचकार्या मारतो.
Police force , medicos सगळ सोडून काम करत आहेत.
आणि आम्ही work from home मिळुनही गाव हिंडत आहोत.


Scientists दिवसरात्र औषध शोधत आहेत आणि आम्ही Home quarantine चा stamp घेऊन गर्दीत घुसत आहोत.


लहानपणी कांजण्या आल्यावर आईने शाळेत पाठवल नव्हत.
पायाला fracture झाल्यावर घरीच होतो.
Malaria आणि dengue झाल्यावरपण घरीच होतो.


14 दिवसांचा प्रश्न असुनही बिनडोकगिरी करत आहेत.

Conquer threat with balance….

Conquer threat with balance….

What is the first thing come in our mind when we think about illness?? May be I am going “Off the track…”may be I am unable to do a particular thing which others are doing….
It’s not always physical involvement of the person which matter…but most of the time the psychological involvement.
Occupational threat is an umbrella term…lot of things comes under that…underestimating a person by judging his /her weakness is only one part. Over-pampering a pt. , taking too much of care could make them feel more ill (mentally). It is our duty to respect their views in terms of what they are expecting after an illness episode.
Everything will come with acceptance…denial, regression means nothing if you accept the patient with the way they are…
One important thing we are forgetting day by day is…we are HUMANS and not MACHINES… “I am worthless if I am not busy in productive activity”- most of the patient think like this. But what are the things which make them to think like this??? May be demands from society, may be expectations from family and professional fields. What if person is not able to reach to that level….this breach will remain forever in his life and it will tend to increase day by day….
What we OTs can do to stop this???\
May be something will happen if society change their perspective….
People tend to love their society, culture till the time every thing is good, in normal phase. What happens when illness occur?? Sudden imbalance….When pt start to look their lives through caregiver’s or other people’s eyes- they think they are worthless, hopeless….Because our actions, emotions behind actions (good or bad) make them to feel like that….
Don’t judge them…don’t make an opinion regarding their life….unless and until you have those guts to change the conditions….world is full of idiots…don’t be one of them by stating “I am feeling pity for you…”
Rather….accept them the way they are….Give them real life experiences where they feel that “look….nothing is changed….all is well”. Giving positive re-inforcement, working in group, “avoiding over-protectiveness” simultaneously explaining them “it’s okay to be dependent….”, not focusing on meaningful activities but only ENGAGEMENT in simple things, getting ideas through available media sources (TARE ZAMEEN PAR, YELLOW, HAMARI ANTARA, SHWAS). There is lot of to DO…if we keep our mind not only opened but also sensible enough to think about these problems….
What all I want is….to just think….because if you are thinking…you are processing….WE ARE WHAT WE THINK….
We all respect sympathy and empathy…..but life is about conquer
threat with

balance…

Special parents…

Whenever we think about a special child…or whenever we see one of them, few things came up to our mind suddenly such as… pity, sympathy, strong will to help them, little bit curiosity about their future…

Being in the field of medical… I always came across with so many special kids.. and their parents too.

Nowadays…or even since last so many decades, one person is investing into other person… it could be a monetary investment… emotional investment… time investment… and what not… and of course he/she will expect something. This is a normal human tendency.

What’s the difference between a normal parent and a special parent??

A special parent is already aware that he/she is not going to get anything in return. To be very honest, the initial few days and months are very hard for them to digest the feeling that their child is special. And once they overcome that hurdle… the actual journey begins. They always redefine the meaning of selfless love…unconditional love… through their nurturing.

Being a parent of neuro typical child… their expectations starts from day one. No matter child is willing or not…no matter child is capable or not… the breeding factory is busy in raising ‘lambi race ka ghoda’.

On the contrary…a special parent will celebrate that special moment like anything…when his child is able to speak…when his child will walk on his own… or even when his child can roll on his own… these moments are so precious for them…

It’s their parents who are special….in all terms.. In terms of care… love… handling…managing societal pressure….mangaging their own stuff and what not….

Not only support a special child… but try tolook at the child through the eyes of a special parent as well…

Wo ek chand mere naam kar…

Wo ek chand mere naam kar…

Umrbhar ka sath nahi…
Ek pal ka ehsaas mere naam kar…
Teri jism se koi lagaav nahi…
Lekin wo ruh mere naam kar…
Bas wahi ek chand mere naam kar…

Aankhe nahi tarasati teri chehre ke liye…
Band ankho se honewala didar mere naam kar…
Teri awaj ka jaadu nahi…
Chupsihi sahi…lekin wo khamoshi mere naam kar…
Bas wahi ek chand mere naam kar…

Teri khushiya tuze mubarak….
Tere sare gam mere naam kar…
Tere wajood se koi vasta nahi…
Na mitnewali hi sahi…lekin wo yaad mere naam kar…
Bas wahi ek chand mere naam kar…

Mil jaye tuze tera ishq…
Teri sari nafrate mere naam kar…
Teri wafa ka hume pata nahi…
Bewafa hi sahi…. meri amanat mere naam kar…
Bas wahi ek chand mere naam kar…

Yakin he hume khub likhoge ishq ki syahi se…
Tera wo kora kagaj mere naam kar…
Teri pyar ki surat se hume koi fark nai…
Tuti si hi sahi…lekin meri ibaadat ki murat mere naam kar…
Bas wahi ek chand mere naam kar…

Bohot milenge bazar me zuthi kahaniya kharidne wale…
Tera wo gehra raaj mere naam kar…
Tere najaro se hume koi gam nai…
Anmol hi sahi …lekin tere sare ashq mere naam kar..
Bas wahi ek chand mere naam kar…

Cherish the moment

Jo bhi hoga dekha jayega…

What a meaningful song. I don’t know the movie. Each of word has so true. Nowadays we all are running in the race of earning and saving… savings in shares, savings in mutual funds, gold, property and what not…

Very few people knows what is mean by Intellectual imvestment.

Jab me na rahu…to pata nahi mere biwi baccho ka kya hoga???

Everybody is scared of tomorrow…

But the answer is ” …..” (and some more infinite dots)

Marne ke dar se jeena nai na chod sakte…

Just like that…

Haarne ke darse jeetna nai na chod sakte…

Win your single day… its an achievement.

Jo bhi hoga dekha jayega.